Beautiful just the way you are part 2

" perempuan kalau ada scars tak elok, lelaki takpalah, nampak macho"

i really disagree with this statement not because i have scars but it does not make any sense. Macho? seriously bro? not so macho hearing your words like that. Ada satu fahaman ni yang perempuan mesti have no flaws, kalau tak diorang ni tak lawa. And this fahaman makes many beautiful girls out there feel insecure with themselves. I faham tak semua girls yang ada kulit lawa, yang semulajadi lawa, takde parut and so on but it does not mean yang muka breakout ni tak lawa, yang ada parut ni ganas and tak reti jaga diri. Please la people out there, stop dengan fahaman yang membuatkan orang tak bersyukur dengan diri sendiri. 

Manusia memang sukakan kecantikan, and women are human too. Lelaki takpalah ada parut 'cause they are guys, lasak apa semua. Okay i nak tanya lah, they all tu bagi ada parut dengan sengaja ke? Tak kan, sama lah dengan perempuan. Okay bila perempuan insecure and start wearing makeup they said, women are fake. Okay pergi Watsons and Guardian nk beli barang kecantikan, they said membazir. Nak apa sebenarnya ?😅. 

"Perempuan kalau ada parut hantaran murah". Okay this statement lagi buat i rasa whuttttt??? What is the connection between duit hantaran and the scars? Do people getting married because of the body? of the beauty?? Okay ada satu kisah sorang laki ni nak kahwin lain sebab isteri dia dah tak cantik macam dulu and he went to this ustaz asking for some advice. Guess what  the ustaz said, " Kalau perempuan pon boleh kahwin lain, dah tentu bini ang kahwin lagi satu sebab aku tengok hang pon tak lalu dengan boroi nya, dengan serabainya"😂Padan muka!

There's so many things that bermain dalam fikiran i yang nak tulis but bila your minds berfikir laju sangat ayatnya tak tertaip jari dibuatnya. What can i conclude is, no matter what shape you are, badan berisi ke, baka besar ke, too thin ke, too dark ke, too putih org kata mcm vampire ke, parut tak boleh hilang ke 'cause i know nk rawat parut takes time and costly jugak, muka senang naik jerawat ke apa, start to love yourself more. Because if you want to be happy, ignore what people said and loves yourself and jadi orang bersyukur, there's many people yang tak bernasib baik nakkan life mcm you all yang you rasa habis hodoh dah tu. NO! you tak hodoh langsung. yang hodh all those words datang people yang mengamalkan fahaman nonsense tu. accept yourself more and you will feel happy. Diorang tak rasa yang all the flaws yang you've being through tu macam mana. Chin up girl. 

kalau ada lelaki yang read this, be smart okay guys? be more open and lebih memahami. thankyou!